This is the pinout for the 10 pin header on the board. Thanks to Ralph Babel.
CN4 : |5 4 3 2 1| |- 9 8 7 6| if you use a ribbon cable, it will be correct almost ŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻŻ automatically. 1 = DCD 6 = DSR 2 = RxD 7 = RTS 3 = TxD 8 = CTS 4 = DTR 9 = RI 5 = GND